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Is Technology Hurting Your Friendships?

Smartphones. Computers. Tablets. There are plenty of ways to connect with each other online. Experts say all this technology is affecting kids’ friendships in negative and positive ways. 

Many people say that sharing videos or playing games online lets kids have fun together even when they’re not in the same place. And 8 in 10 teens say using social media makes them feel more connected to their friends. That’s according to a 2022 survey from the Pew Research Center. 

But others argue that hanging out with friends online isn’t as meaningful as being with them in person. They say sending quick texts isn’t the same as having face-to-face conversations. Even when kids are together, staring at their phones can interrupt quality time. In a 2023 Pew survey, more than 40 percent of teens said smartphones make it harder to learn good social skills. 

Here’s what two of our readers think.

Connecting with friends online isn’t like connecting in person. It’s tricky to tell how someone is feeling in a text or an online chat. You can’t see their facial expressions or hear the tone in their voice. You might think they’re happy, even though you’ve actually hurt their feelings. 

Also, we leave a digital footprint when we post online. If you post something mean, someone could screenshot it before you delete it. If they send it to others, that could hurt your friendships.

Technology is a great tool for keeping in touch with friends and family. I’ve lived in four states and even in Germany. I can see, chat, and play video games with my friends from all those places online! I’m grateful to be able to stay connected to them so easily.

Even if you don’t live far from each other, messaging your friends makes it easy to keep in touch. I text my friends to make plans to do things in person.

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